You having a bad day?
Can’t seem to shake it? Here’s a
thought to consider: There are a LOT of people
who would LOVE to have your bad day!
If
that’s not enough to shake you free from the blues, the funk, the woe-is-me
syndrome, try…….
Going
outside. Nature works wonders.
Doing
something different than you usually do when you get in a funk. If you usually eat, do some jumping
jacks. If you usually run, sit in
silence and draw. If you call the same
person to unload your misery, write your junk down on paper. Then burn it.
Writing
a love letter to someone who has supported you.
Making
some sandwiches and taking them to someone on the street.
Picking
a flower to give to your neighbor.
Going
to Meetup.com to find a group you may want to be a part of.
Stomping
and screaming… lay on the floor and pound your hands and feet. Throw a temper tantrum!
Holding
your own hands. Or your face. Or your feet.
Feel the comfort that you have to offer yourself.
Making
a list of ten things you could do to feel even one degree better.
Doing
one of those.
Writing
a poem.
Singing
a song.
Changing
your shirt.
Finding
a picture of something that makes you feel good and pin it up.
If you try any or all of
these and none seems to do the trick, consider that you may just get pleasure
from having a bad day. And enjoy
that.
Just
please consider that, before you unload your crisis, turmoil, burdens, and heartache
on someone else without their invitation, they are possibly having some
troubles of their own. Ask them about
THEM. And listen. It’s a great distraction from your own ‘stuff.’
“The
best exercise for your heart? Bend down
and lift someone up.”